a major truth...
The Journey - The Responsible One!
"being the caregiver means being the responsible one!
The sooner we learn this, realize it as "the major truth" and accept the fact . . . the easier our journey will be!
Do Not expect them to be the responsible one! Yes, they may be from time to time, but that has nothing to do with your responsibilities.
We already know Parkinson’s damages their brain, the Whole Brain, but how quick and/or which part of it will be damaged cannot be fully predicted! When we don't fully know the cause, we can't fully predict the outcome!
As Parkinson’s progresses, we must step up and become more involved and, at times proactive, thus allowing our guys to continue their hobbies and live their lives to their maximum ability.
No more than we would leave a toddler in peril, we must also do the same for our loved one. These are facts we must accept. We must be vigilant, always!
Being shocked, astounded, or hurt by any of their actions comes from denial or lack of acceptance of the damage PD can and will do!
We must always make sure we are being the responsible one! It is vital! It's the first real duty, the first action of a caregiver. We are their first line of defense!
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